They say that invisible threads are the strongest. After my experience today I believe they are.
My mother is 90 and has Alzheimer’s disease. For the last four years she has lived in a lovely Care Home.
Her mood changes over time as does her memory. Sometimes she knows me, sometimes she doesn’t. Every time I visit I wonder how she will be on this occasion. She has not often recognised me recently.
This morning, as I walked into the Home, I found myself humming a First World War song to myself, for no reason whatsoever. I dismissed the song from my mind, walked towards Mum’s room and waited outside while she was given her medication. I sat down and Mum recognised me immediately.
Then she started singing George M. Cohan’s First World War song, ‘Over There.’ I was flabbergasted.
In my youth I often said that Mum could read my mind. Now, even though her own mind is so fragile, she was doing it once again.
We had a lovely time. I showed her a photo of when I was about three years old. ‘Look,’ she said. ‘You’ve got the same smile now as you had then.’
Invisible threads are the strongest.
As I left the Home I suddenly thought of a way I could honour Mum and thank all of the people who care for her and for others who suffer from Dementia. I have written a short story about my relationship with my mum since she has developed Alzheimer’s. It’s called ‘The Stranger’ and can be found in my collection ‘Pick and Mix.’
I will donate all of the royalties from ‘Pick and Mix’ in July to one the Alzheimer’s Charities.
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